Let $A=$Set of all book in library in college. Given $R=$ {$(x,y):x$ and $y$ have same number of pages}:
If $x=y$, such that $(x,x) \in R$, then $x$ and $y$ have the same number of pages. Hence, $R$ is reflexive.
For $R$ to be symmetric, $(x,y) \in R \; \Rightarrow \; (y,x) \in R$
If $x$ has same number of pages as $y$ then $y$ also has same number pages as $x$. Therefore, $R$ is symmetric
For $R$ to be transitive, if $(x,y),(y,z) \in R \; \Rightarrow \; (x,z) \in R$
If $x$ and $y$ have same number of pages and $y$ and $z$ have same number of pages Then $x$ and $z$ also have same number of pages. Hence $R$ is transitive